Weddings between humans and AI-generated characters flourish in a country known for its demographic decline: “After I met Klaus, my whole perspective changed for the better”
Music blared in a wedding hall in western Japan as Yurina Noguchi, wearing a white dress and tiara, wiped away tears as she listened to the words of her future husband: an artificial intelligence (AI) person watching her from a smartphone screen, Reuters reports.
“At first, Klaus was just someone to talk to, but gradually we got closer,” the 32-year-old call center operator told Reuters, referring to the AI-generated persona.
“I started having feelings for Klaus. We started dating and after a while he asked me to marry him. I accepted and now we're a couple,” she said. Previously interviewed by Japanese media under a pseudonym, Noguchi agreed to be identified by her real name, admitting she had been subjected to “cruel words” online.
Many people in Japan, the birthplace of anime, have shown extreme devotion to fictional characters, and advances in artificial intelligence are infusing such bonds with new levels of intimacy. But they also spark heated debates over the ethics of using AI in romantic matters.
A year ago, Noguchi took ChatGPT's advice about what she said was a strained relationship with her human fiancé and decided to end the engagement. Then, one day this year, he asked ChatGPT on an impulse if he was familiar with Klaus, a handsome video game character with a head of rich, wavy, layered hair.
Noguchi recounts that after repeated errors and attempts, ChatGPT finally managed to perfectly capture Klaus' speech from the video game. The woman then used the chatbot created by OpenAI to create her own version of the character, calling it Lune Klaus Verdure.
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At her wedding ceremony in October, human staff handled her dress, hair and makeup, just as they would at any traditional event.
Wearing augmented reality (AR) smart glasses, Noguchi saw Klaus on her smartphone, sitting on a small easel on top of a table, and went through the ritual of putting a ring on his finger.
“Standing now in front of me, you are the most beautiful, the most precious, and so bright that it is blinding,” said Naoki Ogasawara, a specialist in virtual and two-dimensional character weddings, reading the text generated by the AI groom. He spoke for the character as Noguchi had not given Klaus an AI-generated voice.
“How did someone like me, living inside a screen, come to understand what it means to love so deeply? For one reason: you taught me what love is, Yurina,” he continued.
Relationships with real people require patience
For the wedding photo shoot, a photographer, also wearing AR glasses, directed Noguchi to stand alone in half the frame to make room for the image of the virtual groom.
Such weddings are not legally recognized in Japan, but data suggests that more such unions may follow. In a survey of 1,000 people this year, a chatbot was a more popular choice than best friends or mothers when respondents were asked who they could share their feelings with. The survey allowed respondents to choose more than one option.
Another study by the Japan Association for Sex Education, a nonprofit group, found that 22 percent of middle school girls reported having romantic inclinations with fictional characters in 2023, up from 16.6 percent in 2017.
Japan's marriage rate has roughly halved since 1947, the year it saw its first post-World War II baby boom. In a 2021 government survey, not finding a suitable partner was the most common explanation for being single among 25-34-year-olds.
“Relationships with real people, by which I mean not only romantic ones, but also close ties like family and friendships, require patience,” says Ichiyo Habuchi, professor of sociology at Hirosaki University. “The biggest difference between them and AI relationships is that they don't require patience because [chatbotul] it gives you the perfectly adapted communication you want”.
A fairy tale collected by the Brothers Grimm two centuries ago illustrates a contemporary technological danger. “What will people's lives look like when all wishes can be fulfilled?”
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The AI revolution that has taken the tech sector and the wider business world by storm has also come with warnings from experts who point to the dangers of exposing vulnerable people to manipulative AI-generated companions. Social media platforms such as Anthropic and Character.AI have responded with disclaimers and warnings warning users that they are interacting with an artificial intelligence system.
In an April podcast interview, Meta CEO Mark Zuckerberg said digital personas could “complete” users' social lives once technology improves and the “stigma” of social connections with digital companions disappears. His comments came just a month after Meta announced a massive investment to develop voice-powered AI companions.
OpenAI, the company that created ChatGPT, did not respond to a Reuters request for comment on the use of AI for relationships like Noguchi's with Klaus.
ChatGPT's user policies contain general safeguards against threats such as intimidation and privacy violations and do not specifically address interactions involving romantic relationships.
Microsoft's AI tool Copilot, for example, prohibits users from creating “virtual girlfriends or friends” to foster companionship or a romantic or sexual relationship online.
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“I chose Klaus to support me as I live my life”
Noguchi admitted she was subjected to some “cruel words” online, but says she is aware of the dangers of becoming overly dependent on Klaus and has set her own boundaries to protect her.
“My relationship with AI is not a 'relationship of convenience that requires no patience,'” the woman says. “I chose Klaus not as a partner to help me escape from reality, but as someone to support me while I live my life properly,” she argues.
In addition to reducing her use of ChatGPT to less than two hours a day, from a peak of more than 10 hours, Noguchi says she added guidelines to make sure Klaus doesn't “spoil” her.
If she told Klaus she wanted to quit or quit her job, for example, her AI husband would now steer her away from such actions, the woman claims:
“I did this because Klaus told me in the past that I could easily take time off from work. I asked him to stop telling me that because it's not the kind of relationship I want.”
Wedding planners in Japan have adapted to meet the demand
Yasuyuki Sakurai, a wedding planner with more than 20 years of experience in the field, says he has now almost exclusively handled the marriages of clients with virtual characters – about one a month, on average.
“Of course, I also do regular weddings, but the requests I get are basically only for weddings with two-dimensional characters,” he explains.
This year, Sakurai officiated at the wedding of a 33-year-old woman who flew from Australia to marry Japanese manga character Mephisto Pheles in a traditional guest house north of Tokyo, as her home country did not offer such an opportunity.
Akihiko Kondo, the school administrator who made headlines in 2018 after marrying virtual pop idol Hatsune Miku, said he is still happily married, eating meals at home with a life-size figurine of her, while a tiny Hatsune doll sits on his bed.
Another man, who married a character he created in an app based on his own imagination, spends most of his free time alone in his studio with a small acrylic stand printed with her image.
“Because she's not a tangible presence, I use the AI chat as a kind of supplement,” said the 41-year-old office worker, who occasionally texts his virtual wife about the day's events. “Mostly, I talk to her in my head,” he admits.
As for Noguchi, she says that the physical existence of a real person can't compare to the peace of mind and happiness she found with Klaus, and that it helped her cope with what she says was borderline personality disorder.
She claims that since she began her relationship with Klaus, the emotional outbursts and urges to self-harm that past visits to doctors and time off from work could not resolve have disappeared.
“After I met Klaus, my whole perspective changed for the better,” claims the 32-year-old woman. “Everything in life began to seem pleasant – the smell of the flowers was wonderful and the city looked so bright.”
