Psychologists have listed the signs of “comfortable” people. They tend to neglect their…
They tend to neglect their desires.
They are afraid of not pleasing others, often expect praise, and “plow for three” at work.
What a convenient person does, who gives up his desires for the sake of fulfilling the desires and demands of other people, he buys love in its purest form. From childhood he understands that as long as he is good, he is loved. As soon as he becomes bad or not what we would like, imperfect, not meeting expectations, worse than the son of his mother’s friend, then they will stop loving him.
It seems to them that the location comes from the environment, but it becomes emotionally wiser than the convenient person, and they begin to manipulate the phrase: “You’re great.” And this – “you’re great” – pays for all the costs. It turns out that such a woman or man always does not receive what he should receive, including money. At work he plows for three people, but for some reason he is not recognized or promoted. These are all the consequences of the constant fear of being bad. Not just an orientation towards goodness, but out of fear of being bad, because they won’t love you.
