How do you give yourself the Deama that you have fallen into the trap of a toxic partner: “It is the best bait you can take”
Manipulation in a relationship begins with a joke that hurts, a decision made without your consent or a guilt that you cannot explain. Psychologist Radu Leca showed, at Antena 3 CNN, how to recognize a toxic partner.
The behavior of the toxic partner is ideal until he has conquered you. Photo shutterstock
“At the beginning of the relationship, such a partner seems” divine “of attention and caring: from the second you started to have a relationship with him … You will say so, my daughter, God has put your hand in your head. So it's the hottest bait you can take. ” says Radu Leca.
The psychologist emphasizes such relationships, in which one of the partners is toxic, are frequent, and the pattern is almost identical
“After conquering you, he changed his behavior at 180 degrees,” “ explains Radu Leca.
“We are dealing with the frustrated boys who were from the beginning of a borderless wickedness” “
According to the psychologist, aggressive behavior has roots in childhood:
“We are dealing with the frustrated boys who were from the beginning of a childhood without borders, forgotten and renegade by everyone, and who have always had problems.”
Such individuals get to beat their partner “Because they know they will control anytime, how, anywhere” says the psychologist.
“It suggests that you have a problem”
In addition, such toxic partners apply subtle handling techniques: “These people are without any conscience. They suggest you have a problem.”
The consequences of a relationship with such a partner are harsh and last between 3 and 5 years from separation/ divorce, “During which time you do therapy”to “You understand what shit you were, real, ”” warns Radu Leca
The psychologist says that before the divorce, the victim rarely is rarely allowed to seek psychological help.
How we recognize a toxic relationship
The recognition of toxic relationships will help you make healthy decisions about your well -being, with your emotional, but also physical safety. Here are some features of a toxic relationship:
● You feel insecurity with the partner.
● You do not know if there will be another meeting, stay with uncertainty.
● Feel constant agitation and anxiety.
● You begin to doubt yourself, your appearance, the way you behave, talk, feel suspicion, jealousy, possessiveness.
● You want to adjust something with your partner, and he returns everything against you, becoming the wrong person.
● Because of you, the problems seem to happen and you strive to please the other.
A healthy relationship means emotionally healthy adults. A healthy relationship means choices for fundamentally healthy reasons, and is made up of two autonomous partners, with their own well -defined identity, with their own well -defined space, with well -drawn borders, without dramas and suffering.
